If you know you have only 2 more weeks to live... would you tell your loved ones?
Would you break the news, do a big group hug & cry, then spend the next 14 days not letting each other out of sight; or would you keep it to yourself, go around to settle ur own funeral matters, then carry on the countdown calmly & solemnly??
Destination is the same, journeys are different...
I wonder if mum knows.
3 comments:
Hey gal, whenever I read your entry about your mom, I feel so bad about not being of much help. Please cheer up kk?
i always have this tot...
would it be better to die via illness or be it through an accident when we are just taken away just like that..
the former is probably a more painful process but the latter will probably deprive u of a chance to say ur final goodbyes and last words...
so given a choice..
not that i want to make one...
the first option is not that bad after all..
but i always wonder what really goes through a person's mind on that brink of passing on..
i would have felt really bad..
with all the uncertainties of what's gonna happen on..
and missing my family and frens..
and more importantly..
i think i will miss this body that has represented me for all this while..
sometimes life is really so fragile and unpredictable that i ask wat is really the meaning of life?
To Kay:
Hey gal, don't feel bad. U've already done A LOT. Me & dad appreciates everything really. Pls do not let my entries weigh u down... (It's never my intention to sadden or worry anyone through my writings.) I know u care, thanks really... Big hugs. Keep in touch.
To Anonymous:
I guess death is somewhat scary to most, if not all, of us. (Some of those truly-enlightened will not fear death, as they see it as a transit stop to their reunion with the higher beings.)
Guess no one way of death is non-painful or non-cruel to our loved ones. That's why some wise man once said that the partner who wishes to pass on first is the selfish one, as he/she is willing to let his/her partner deal with long-term grief alone.
U ask: "sometimes life is really so fragile and unpredictable that i ask wat is really the meaning of life?".
My answer: "Life is to make u see how fragile & unpredictable it is".
Live life well. Good Luck.
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